Male Guide to Female Communication

Male Guide to Female Communication

The basic way to have a successful relationship with anyone is communication. It is the foundation of any friendship and relationship. However, when you are dealing with the opposite sex we assume that we are experts in the field of successful communication. Bottom line, men and women communicate differently and that is mostly biological or just what they have acquired in their lifetime. When it does come to having good communication men are very poor at it, but at the same time women are no better at it either. We should know that if we think we are masters at communicating then we are conjuring up fictitious thoughts inside our heads. Communication should seem so basic to men, yet they fail to understand us or maybe we just do not execute it properly. I am going to shed some light on the male brain a bit and give them tips as well as inform them on how a woman thinks.

1: Men be an active listener

Participate in the conversation! Ask questions! Let her tell you what she has on her mind because she is telling you for reason. With that being said, being patient while listening is key to having a successful outcome to your conversation. While you are being patient you need to focus on not just what she is telling you, but her gestures as well. Active listening is not just being attentive, but it is also watching her body language as well as looking into her eyes. I know that you may want to control the conversation, but sometimes all we want is someone to listen and give us some feedback when we’re done rambling on.

2: Ask her how her day was

We understand that after a long day all we want to do is sit on the couch, put on the game, and crack open a beer. well women also have a long day too and they want to decompress just as much as you do. However, most women want to immediately call or talk to you face-to-face when they get home so they can talk about there day. It makes them feel really good when you ask her just how are you or how your day was. Those maybe 20 minutes that they ask of your time that you devote to your woman could really benefit you in the long run.

3: Know how and what to say

Often when a woman tells you her problem she plans on organizing her thoughts as she is speaking to you. Most times when we speak the words just end up spilling out like those extra gumballs you end up receiving from a candy machine. When they talk about something women are not always looking for a solution, but they just want someone to understand what they are feeling. LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN. And make eye contact. Don’t be paying attention to the TV.

4: women think long and hard about a serious conversation we want to have

When I say that women are not direct I am not saying that men are more honest than women. What I mean is that men like to get straight to the point every single time. Women do not like to be rushed. We are unable to think of things to say on the spot, but apparently you are able to conjure up words out of thin air. they think long and hard about there conversations. So be patient and don’t try to rush the conversation.

5: When women want to talk she is telling you that she wants to become closer

Women love to talk. When a woman says that she wants to talk to you that does not mean that something is wrong. Women just want to talk and become closer. They like to dig deeper into our relationships instead of always talking about the surface level questions. If a woman wants to talk to you, then you should take that as a compliment because she is letting you inside of her thoughts.

6: Even after you say, “I love you” we are still going to be cheesy

When you tell a woman those three words it is like nothing else matters in that moment. The world stops (and most times are hearts do for a few moments). BUT, aside from saying the magic words, they still want you to tell them how you feel. Women like to know your thoughts and the way that you are feeling. This isn’t to embarrass you or making things all mushy, it’s just to get to know you on a deeper level.

7:use more words to make a point and express more feelings

Men! because they are illiterate and dramatic as F.

8:Women hint

women are socialised and put other's first

women often expect men to read their minds and know what they want without actually telling them

and here is 5 deadly women terms 

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