ManHood

We men come in different size, shapes and mentality

manliness. Okay, maybe Wolverine has a little something extra.

The thing is, we’re not all world traveler / secret agent / overly-hairy badasses. In the real world, most of us sit at a desk all day and keep our faces clean shaven. Hell, I couldn’t grow a real mustache if I wanted to.

Maybe you’re shorter than average, or maybe you look young for your age. Perhaps these features have made you soft-spoken, and you’ve never considered yourself an alpha male.

Even in our advanced society, where it’s obvious that wisdom and success are more important than size and strength but traditional measures of manliness still persist in our minds.

We evolved this way. These beliefs are part of our genetic code (and probably always will be). This is the reason men find women with a particular waist-to-hip ratio especially attractive. It’s why women can’t help but feel an instinctive attraction toward big/strong/hairy dudes with deep voices (not all cases).

But these traits don’t matter anymore. And for us men who can’t grow a beard or bench press 200 pounds, there are still many ways to be manly.

By bench pressing 200 or growing a full beard or being muscular does not mean your a man, there are many other factors that we have to consider ex. how we behave towards others , how we treat our women , etc..

Here are some tips to be a better man

1.Style: men in their 20s and 30s still have room to improve. In particular, men who want to feel and appear more masculine, can really use clothing to their advantage.

Before a woman notices your haircut, muscles , smile, height, etc., she notices your outfit.

there is a saying, "Your clothes are always working. They’re either working for you or against you, but they’re always working"

Gentlemen, I implore you: Make your clothes work for you

2.Women: Most men don’t know how to talk to women. It’s easy to assume that everyone else at the bar has game, but look around, most men are standing in the corner drinking with other males.

guys always think talking or approaching a women is difficult, well yes it is! just for a second put your self in her shoes, your a random dude approaching her. so most definitely she will have her guard up. you have to make her understand ( feel ) that your not a threat towards her. Be your self, be funny, be smart.

The art of winning over women has grown very popular over the past few years. You’ve probably heard the term “pick up artist” at some point or another. There is actually an entire subculture dedicated to perfecting this skill.

I’m not suggesting that you should make it a goal to “get” more women or become some sort of smooth-talking Casanova. That’s not noble or manly. But you should make an effort to understand and connect with women, be there friends, coworkers.

You will only get more comfortable talking to women by doing it. You have to force yourself out of your comfort zone and accept the fact that like anything else, you will suck at it at first.

But guess what? Just by putting yourself out there, you will be ahead of most men.

Alternatively, if you don’t like or are over the bar scene, go online. Online dating doesn’t carry the stigma that it once did, and it is a great way to meet women for friends and dating.

3.have a voice: Get comfortable speaking in front of groups.

Most white collar jobs will require you, at one point or another, to get in front of a group of people and present information or ideas. Even if your professional life never calls for public speaking, your personal life very well might.

It’s no secret that most people don’t like public speaking. In fact, it’s our number one fear. This natural fear is exacerbated if you are insecure about your physical appearance. After all, when you’re in the spotlight, it’s all eyes on you.

But fear not! Just like talking to women, anyone can get good at public speaking with practice. It’s a numbers game.

4. learn how to fight: Most men have never been (and will never be) in a fight. And despite what Tyler Durden said, this is a good thing. You know why? Because fighting is dangerous and scary, and real gentlemen avoid it at all costs. but i don't just mean physical fighting but fight for your right , fight for you opinion.

I know that’s a little dramatic, but the truth is, you don’t need a practical reason to learn how to fight. Martial arts training isn’t a means to an end. It’s just an  good way to spend your time ( if your into that).

It helps you stay in shape. It builds confidence. And, yes, it teaches you how to defend yourself.

SUMMING UP

Here’s the good news: These four areas are related. They all have the same effect: increased confidence and higher self-esteem—which impacts every aspect of your life. 

You don’t have to tackle all of these things at once. Pick an area that you are interested or particularly weak in, and go after it like there’s no tomorrow.

Always remember: there are plenty of things in life that you can’t control—your height, your thinning hair, your IQ—and there’s no point in dwelling on these things. If you want to be manly and interesting and attractive, focus on what you can control.